Oh What a Year! (12)

 When my life drastically changed in 2008 I never thought I would be as happy as I am today. After divorce, the loss of my mother and life as I had known it;  recovery, rejoicing and peace within were far from what I thought would ever occur. But…..

2011 was a wonderful year

Hugo

January – grandson #4 Hugo is born to Erica, which prompted a trip to Phoenix.

 

Marshall

 February – grandson #5 Marshall is born to Rebecca; the day of the Tulsa blizzard (I am in Phoenix and miss both).

April – my birthday – another great day. We had a birthday party with friends.

May – Mother’s Day; I have trouble on this day. My mother died shortly after and I still miss her. MG gives me a lovely piece of jewelry even though I am not his children's mother.

           Another gall bladder attack -- this time surgery. Finally.

June – trip to family reunion in Arkansas; not knowing this would be last time I would see my dear cousin Randy.

    Grandson #1 Jordan is 10!!

Jordan

   Go to dermatologist for a spot on my face, results; skin cancer removed. Thanks to hubby for insisting I go for a check up.

July – trip to Hot Springs, AR which is always fun. We love the Mini Cooper

Wedding!!

August – oh the best month. I am married to the most wonderful man that God lead me to. We eloped to Eureka Springs, AR and have the best time I have had - ever.

I am also awarded Employee of the Month at my place of work, a big surprise!

September – grandchild #3 Emma is one year old!! Erica is here for a visit and we all get to be together again.

Miss Emma

At the party I see my ex for the first time in 2 years; confirming that I made the right decision leaving a loveless marriage. 

            My eldest daughter Katy, has a birthday. Another happy day.







October – My father dies unexpectedly. The strain becomes greater between my family and me.

            We hold a friends and family wedding reception. MG’s parents arrive unexpectedly and I get to meet them for the first time. MG and I go on our honeymoon trip from Chicago to Seattle via Amtrack. What fun we had!!!!

My first honeymoon trip!

November – Grandson #2 Conor is 4!! We have a great time celebrating.

Conor

December – My middle and youngest daughters have birthdays one day apart. (No didn’t plan it that way). More happy celebrations.

Christmas with all the children and grand-children. How fun. MG and I start our own holiday traditions. 

What a year!!! – I am happy, serene and blessed. MG and I have been together 648 days; married 149 days at the end of this year. With God’s help I found a terrific, loving, generous man and I am grateful every day. I just had to get out of His way.

Here’s hoping we all have a terrific 2012.

Year's end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the wisdom that experience can instill in us.  ~Hal Borland